How to know if someone is your soulmate is explored in this contributed post.
We spend our lives looking for the one. Sometimes, we find the one, but then it turns out that that one was not, in fact, the one that was meant for us. But we keep looking, convinced that, in a world full of negativity, the next one will be the one to change our lives for the better.
And most of the time, that works out. It’s excellent, that feeling of giddy nervousness that doesn’t worry you but fills you with an anticipation that you can’t describe except to those who have experienced the same thing. The old saying goes that ‘When you know, you know.’ But how can you be sure that you know? And where do you go from there?
People are actors. It is never a conscious decision, but at the same time, the person they are at the office, or at the store isn’t necessarily who they truly are.
When meeting your soulmate for the first time, this doesn’t happen. There are no acts or scripts to follow, you cast your insecurities to the side and are just yourself. Your soulmate, too does the same. What follows is nights of endless conversation, excuses to see one another and a complete lack of anxiety.
YOU’RE WILLING TO TAKE A LEAP
Often, those who meet their soulmate will immediately by considering the future with them. Even the most logical and cautious among us will start hearing wedding bells and catch themselves mumbling ‘I do.’ whenever they start daydreaming.
It might even go even further, wedding venues, researching Tacori wedding rings and wedding bands at Whiteflash and juggling which of the weird relatives being there, and which can stay at home. Where you were once nervous anytime the conversation of buying a house together or having children came up, now, you are rattling off baby names in your sleep, and picturing your dream home.
IT JUST FEELS RIGHT
Another feeling that is difficult to describe. But after a day, a week, or a month with your soulmate, you just know. You never feel as if anything you do together is a chore. You can sit up all night without running out of topics to talk about, and, during these long talks, you find yourself nodding and agreeing with everything each other says.
But this agreement and mutual respect is not the same as bumping into someone at a bar and agreeing with them hoping they like you. Instead, you’re not even thinking about the other liking you, because that much is obvious already. Deep, meaningful discussions can go one of two ways; either you find you agree with everything, and even if you don’t agree entirely, you are respectful enough to listen to them explain, or, the minute a conscientious issue arises the conversation comes to a screeching halt. But with a soulmate, that doesn’t happen.
Embarking on a search for a soulmate can be a long road filled with false promises and occasional heartbreak. But, continuing along that path will soon lead to discovering that the one is out there, and they’re searching for you just as scrupulously as you are.